Congratulations on your engagement! Now that you have said “yes” to the big question, it’s time to start preparing for your big day. The further ahead you start planning, the better off you will be in the end.
Below, you will find a month-by-month engagement checklist that will help you build the wedding of your dreams. This engagement preparation list will help you stay organized, reduce your stress, and keep you on track from the moment of your engagement until you finally say “I do!”
Things to Do 12+ Months Out from Your Wedding Day
When you’re about a year away from your wedding day, it’s time to start completing everything on your checklist for engagement. At this point, the goal is to define your vision and lay the foundation for your perfect day. You will need to:
- Set a realistic wedding budget
- Choose your destination
- Reach out to a Certified Destination Wedding Specialist
- Confirm any travel requirements
- Start drafting your guest list
Things to Do 11 Months Out from Your Wedding Day
With 11 months left, it’s time to start making key decisions so you can lock in your dream destination and start with the real planning. You will need to:
- Confirm your wedding date
- Secure the resort or venue of your choice
- Start discussing group contracts or room blocks with Specialist
- Review any legal marriage requirements for your destination if you’re planning a legal ceremony
Things to Do 10 Months Out from Your Wedding Day
10 months from your wedding date is a time when you can start spreading the word about your destination wedding and check a few more things off your engagement checklist, including the following:
- Finalize the guest list
- Send save-the-date cards to your guests
- Build a wedding website with travel plans
- Coordinate group travel rates and room blocks with your Certified Destination Wedding Specialist
Things to Do 9 Months Out from Your Wedding Day
The 9-month mark may feel like a lot of time, but there are some big decisions you need to make at this time. You will need to:
- Book travel and accommodations for the couple (suggest guests do the same)
- Finalize wedding package details with your Certified Destination Wedding Specialist
- Start thinking about attire and accessories for your wedding party
Things to Do 8 Months Out from Your Wedding Day
At the 8-month mark, it’s time to start personalizing your ceremony. This is the point when reality often sets in and the real planning begins.
- Choose vendors: photographer, florist, official, musicians, etc., if they are not included in your package and you are choosing outside vendors
- Confirm ceremony and reception details with your Specialist and on-site resort coordinator
- Start shopping for wedding attire
- Browse local excursions and experiences to curate a list for your guests
Things to Do 7 Months Out from Your Wedding Day
The seventh month brings style and logistics to the forefront. Your engagement preparation list for this month includes the following:
- Order the wedding attire for the couple and the wedding party
- Confirm travel documents like passports and visas, if required
- Plan the décor and theme details with your on-site wedding coordinator
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Things to Do 6 Months Out from Your Wedding Day
At 6 months, you’re at the halfway point to your big day. During this month, you should:
- Finalize vendor contracts
- Schedule hair and makeup trials
- Organize group travel itineraries and share them with your guests
- Confirm the ceremony timeline with your on-site coordinator
- Create a wedding registry (an important step if you’re having a bridal shower before the trip)
Things to Do 5 Months Out from Your Wedding Day
The fifth month starts bringing the major details together, allowing you to start focusing on personalizing the wedding. You should:
- Book your rehearsal dinner or welcome event
- Plan welcome bags or favors for your guests
- Confirm music and entertainment, if included in your package
- Reach out to your guests to ensure they’re making travel arrangements
Things to Do 4 Months Out from Your Wedding Day
With 4 months left until your wedding, your checklist for engagement is getting shorter. During this month, you should do the following:
- Review and finalize the menu with the resort
- Confirm flowers and décor elements
- Put together any required documents to ensure your wedding is legally recognized if you’re having a legal ceremony
- Have your wedding shower if you’re planning to have one.
Things to Do 3 Months Out from Your Wedding Day
With just 3 months left until your big day, it’s time to start making final preparations and coordinating with your guests. Here’s a list of things to do:
- Send your formal invitations with RSVP requests
- Schedule final dress fittings
- Plan group excursions or activities for your guests
Things to Do 2 Months Out from Your Wedding Day
Two months before your wedding day is the perfect time to start finalizing all the details. During this time, you should:
- Confirm the final guest count with your venue and vendors
- Review the details with your Certified Destination Wedding Specialist
- Create a detailed itinerary for your wedding weekend
- Plan a bachelor or bachelorette party if this is in the plans before your departure
Things to Do 1 Month Out from Your Wedding Day
With just a month left until you say “I do,” you’re in the final countdown. Now is the time to:
- Reconfirm travel details with the airline, resort, and your Specialist
- Pack essentials, such as documents and attire
- Review the ceremony script and any readings
- Make final payments to your vendors, if you are using outside vendors
- If your destination wedding is solely symbolic, now is a good time to have your legal ceremony at home
Things to Do 2 Weeks Before Your Wedding Day
Two weeks before you head to your destination, there are a few things you still have left to do, including the following:
- Double-check your travel documents and make copies to store in a safe place
- Confirm arrival times and logistics with your vendors, if using outside vendors
- Review resort and on-site coordination plans with the on-site resort wedding planner
Things to Do 1 Week Before Your Wedding Day
One week before you leave, you may be feeling a little stressed and anxious. However, your dream wedding is just around the corner. With one week left, you should:
- Relax and perform self-care, such as a spa day or manicure
- Confirm your packing list and make sure your attire is ready
- Leave copies of important travel documents with a trusted family member or friend who isn’t attending
Things to Do The Day Before Your Wedding
The day before your wedding should be a day of relaxation and soaking in the excitement. On this day, you should:
- Attend the wedding rehearsal and confirm the details for the ceremony
- Relax with your loved ones
- Prep your wedding attire and accessories
Things to Do the Day of Your Wedding
Congratulations! It’s finally your wedding day. The last few things you will need to do include the following:
- Enjoy every moment of your special day
- Trust in your planner and vendors to carry out all the details
- Celebrate and cherish your partner and guests
This day is all about you! Be present and relax!
We’re Here to Help You Plan the Destination Wedding of Your Dreams!
With help from this engagement preparation list and an experienced wedding specialist, you can plan the destination wedding of your dreams with less stress. From the first planning call to the final toast as a married couple, our Certified Destination Wedding Specialists will help you have the wedding you’ve always wanted. We offer expert advice, have exclusive resort connections, and give you personalized planning support to guarantee a beautiful wedding you and your guests will love.
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