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We're getting married in Mexico as well at the Moon Palace on June 26th. Unlike your family though mine has been everything but supportive but I wanted something small. But now to appease everyone I'm having a HUGE reception here in Houston as well as setting up the wedding and dinner in Mexico. I'm looking forward to the vacation almost as much as the wedding at this point! Good luck on your nuptials!
On the whole everyone has been really great about the concept, but my elderly grandparents were not very excited about the idea at all. So, just like you, we are having a traditional reception back home about a month after our destination wedding, which is also in Mexico! We plan on re-affirming our vows at the reception so those who don't make it to Mexico will still feel a part of everything. It's the best compromise we could come up with to make everyone happy! Best of luck to you and your fiance as well!
Wow, I feel for both of you! We were going to have a small "reception" when we got back, and we wanted just a laid back tropical style BBQ. It started getting out of control, with 150+ guests, having to rent a hall, get a caterer, etc. We just axed it in the end. Some people were dissapointed, but we posted the video on our site and invited everybody to watch it, which seemed to help.
Yeah we just pulled the plug on ours for the very same reason yesterday. My mother was livid but she'll get over it or not. Probably not but I can't help it. I deal with enough stress at work. I don't want to deal with the mess of a expensive not even for me reception. I never wanted one to begin with. Where's the beach and a drink when you need one!
Don't worry Michelle, she'll get over it once the destination wedding is over. It's really amazing how much fun a weekend it is, everyone will love it, and totally forget about a reception at home. Our parents were a little dissapointed at first, but after the wedding itself everyone was good (could have been a weekend of cocktails on the beach-that can fix anything!)
I too am from Buffalo and am getting married in Mexico in May of '09!!! Where are you getting married??
Hi Nicole,
I am sorry I didn't answer sooner, but I just read your post today. What a crazy coincidence!!! We are getting marries at the Sandos Caracol in the Mayan Riviera on May 28th. How about you?
My fiance and I have been engaged 4yrs now, looking to make it final. Would like a tropical beach wedding that includes friends and family and our six children, 3 his 3 mine. looking for something nice yet elegant and inexpensive for us and our guests any suggestions?Help...